After five years of on again off again online dating, I discovered that adult men ALL seem to want the same thing. OK, I know what you are thinking! No, I’m not talking about sex. There’s plenty of cyber booty to go around and it’s available however you want it…over, under or upside down, sexting, tweeting and fooling around. I was a mere grain of sand in the cesspool of loneliness. No, I’m not talking about money. Even the Nigerian scammers were afraid of my broke booty!
All suitors proclaimed they were looking for their soul mate, a nice lady with a BIG heart.
OK, maybe not EVERYONE. One of my more honest dates said, “If I can’t have your heart, I’m willing to settle for your creative BRAIN! I’m recently divorced and since you are an interior decorator… can you please HELP, my ex took EVERY thing. I don’t have any furniture, there’s nothing on the walls and I don’t know where to start!”
I understand and sympathize with my well-meaning suitors. 
It can be a little daunting to entertain your lady guests without a sofa or bed! I must admit, I have seen some interesting guy decor. A life size photo of you on the wall, an album collection of Grand Funk Railroad and even a talking fish!
After politely touring an uncountable number of hideous man caves, I finally got the courage to ask, “Can you pay for my interior design services?” The standard response…Uh, NO, she took all my money too!
This Blog is for all my online dating friends and for all the guy friends of girls who just aren’t in to you enough to decorate your place for FREE!
On a more serious note, this is also a site for self-discovery as you walk the path of recapturing and growing your individual self. Your likes, dislikes, style and synergy you want your environment to be.
It’s also a place where guys can learn from other guys who have already gone through the single struggle and have come out on the top with amazing bachelor pads and man caves you can only dream of! Special places with unique style and character that depicts their own personality. At last, they found their refuge.
At last, they are home!
